I haven’t really talked about the very small town that we moved to in Southern Indiana when we retired but today seems like the perfect day to introduce you to our town. So as to not embarrass anyone and to protect the innocent, let’s refer to the town as Lionville. The reason that Captain Mark and I choose to relocate here was because this is where “my people” are from. For more than 150 years, members of my family have lived in this county and since 1929, in this very house. This is the house where my father lived most of his formative years and the house was purchased in 1940 by my great-aunt (grandfather’s baby sister) and her husband. It was from her estate in 2003 that Mark and I purchased the house.
We are often asked how we could move from the Chicago Loop to a tiny town in Southern Indiana where the closest Wal-Mart is over twenty-five miles away and the nearest Target is over fifty miles. The decision was very easy and the reasons are multi-fold. While I did not go to school in this county, I spent a great deal of my childhood here – every weekend and summer while my father farmed the family homestead – so there is comfort and familiarity with Lionville that comes filled with wonderfully distorted and cherished childhood memories. When this house was for sale following my aunt’s death, I just could not bear to allow it to leave the family and it seemed easier for us to move here than have the house moved elsewhere. Captain Mark and I knew that we wanted to travel and we simply could not afford to travel like we have and still maintain our condo in Chicago. We loved living in Chicago, especially being right downtown with Grant Park as our front yard, with so much culture, diversity and all of the wonderful restaurants. But we had to make a choice regarding our retirement years. For us it was either continue to live in Chicago and never venture outside the city limits OR we could relocate to Lionville where the cost of living is more affordable and would allow us to travel. I must admit that it did take some smooth talking on my part to convince Captain Mark to purchase this house…it was in dire need of updating and pretty much required a total overhaul of all the major components like heating/plumbing/roofing/siding to say nothing of the decorating. I was able to convince him by appealing to the accountant (frugal/cheap) aspect of his personality by pointing out that in remodeling this house we would have a home (with no mortgage) that would be exactly what we want. It would cost considerably less over the remainder of our lifetime than keeping the condo in Chicago especially when one factored in the monthly maintenance fees that were over and above our mortgage.
So it was in 2003 that we purchased the house and began what would be a four year renovation. The house was originally built in 1905, and it was important to us that through the renovation process we keep the original flavor of the house. We did this by updating the infrastructure that could be hidden while maintaining the plaster and lathe walls, woodwork, and basic framework of the house.
While Lionville does not have multiple ethnic eateries or a world-class symphony or dance lessons/movies/festivals in the park or a lakefront like Chicago, it does have several things that make it uniquely appealing and that one would never find in Chicago…Amish buggies that travel each day in front of our house, lightening bugs and butterflies in the summer and most of all stars that fill the night sky. Best of all, with only three stop lights in town that are totally synchronized, rush hour traffic is a piece of cake. Never once have we regretted our decision and it has proven to have been one of the best decisions that we have made in our forty-two years together.
Yes, we have cougars or mountain lions or whatever you want to call them. This photo was taken about five miles from our home in the fall of 2009.
Tuesday, January 5, 2010
Friday, January 1, 2010
New Year's Resolutions
When it comes to New Year’s resolutions, I have in the past made the same generic resolutions that everyone else makes like trying to lose weight, spend less money and get more sleep. Of course, like everyone else these resolutions stay in my mind/resolve about as long as it takes to enter them into the list section of my Blackberry. I think this is because in my heart I really do not think that the New Year begins on the first day of January. I have always thought that the first day of the New Year is actually the day after Labor Day for this is when the new school year started, I had new shoes and underwear, new school books, a new teacher and sometimes even a new school. Everything in my life was starting refreshed after a long summer of fun and foolishness so it was time to settle down and start anew. The fall has always been my favorite season, so it just makes sense that the New Year should begin with my favorite time of the year.
Also I am a firm believer in that resolutions made in January are just another means for self-flagellation. I never keep them and then I feel upset with myself that I am still fat, that my savings account did not grow as much as it should have, I still have not become a Master Knitter, yada, yada, yada. So why set myself up to fail?
Now with all that being said, for some odd reason this January 1st I felt compelled to reflect back and seriously think about what I wanted to accomplish in the upcoming weeks/months/year. I think most of this compulsion is fueled by the knowledge that this will most likely be the last year of our Great Loop boat trip. We have stretched our funds, our time and the distance around the Eastern half of the United States about as long as we can. I find the thought of not being a “Looper” or serious boat traveler most distressing and therefore I am forced to focus my attention elsewhere, hence a new and improved approach to New Year’s Resolutions for the calendar year 2010.
So using my logic while looking at the Julian calendar for 2010, I have only nine months left to finish the things I need to complete before the end of my year. Therefore, I need to make a prioritized list of what I want to accomplish before we cross our wake in Chicago in September. Here goes:
1. Keep the blog “reasonably” current (as many of you have reminded me, I have been woefully negligent in this area)
2. Finish/submit/pass Level II of the Master Knitter Certification (there are only 3 levels so I will be 2/3 of the way done)
3. Lose 20 pounds by working out regularly (even when my knees hurt or it is raining outside or I am tired or it is morning and I would rather sleep or any of the million other excuses I can find)
4. Keep all non-essential purchases (knitting, spinning and wine mostly) to cash only transactions (I find that I spend way less money when it is hard cold cash that I have to hand over to someone else)
I think four major items are enough for me to tackle in nine months – I am retired after all and I do not want life to become too stressful.
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